as a person . . . and I think that’s a healthy thing . . . really.
Not long after the Republican convention, there was a Facebook group called “Intelligent Women Against Palin.” At the time I remember twittering something like “[kipbot] thinks intelligent ______ against anything republican kind of proves their point.” Leaving aside that it’s completely stupid to think that insulting people’s intelligence will do anything more than serve one’s own ego and galvanize the people on the other side, there was a bigger dynamic. Why are we soooooo unsympathetic to people who vote for candidates we can’t stand?
Watching With God on Our Side, a documentary about George W Bush’s relationship to evangelical America, I saw a Bush that I had been blind to: a devout Christian, likeable guy, with a simple worldview that could be seen as, and maybe, is hard-won wisdom.
A few clips showed Bush talking about his drinking, dissipated lifestyle and how he pulled things together through his faith. He joked, but was humble and quiet and confident, about how he went from not so good guy to someone with something to offer. During those clips, especially one where he joked about giving his mother all those white hairs, I liked and respected the guy. Thhe audience was clearly connecting with him as well.
Then they got to the famous moment where a Republican debate moderator asked who the most important political thinker in their lives was and Bush gave the simple, direct answer of Jesus. Many people, no doubt mysefl included, guffawed and wailed on the moron for the next week. “What a lightweight!” “No inner resources.” “Tool.”
After being softened by earlier clips, I had a hard time being pissed at his answer when I saw it. (And to be honest, I’m not sure I ever actually SAW him say it, I probably only encountered it in text.) I watched the clip three times and I’m pretty sure I didn’t see any defiance in his voice (”come on liberals and fellow Republicans on stage, I dare you to mock me.”) Had this been a character in a show, like say Leo McGarrey saying something like “I have a sickness and I can’t drink again”, or a black junkie turned community worker in The Wire, we would have shed a tear, but when R’s talk like this . . .
Anyway, I’m tired of hating the people who like the people we hate. Intellectually, it’s dishonest, politically, it’s useless, and now I’m starting to feel mean.